People always like to ask, “When did you first realize you were gay?” That answer changes depending on the day. Sometimes, it seems like I always knew in the back of my mind. And other times it feels like something that didn’t really become a thought until puberty hit.
But this is an article specifically about coming out and for me, that happened in 2006, the year after I graduated college. It wasn’t a premeditated decision. I was chatting with my best girlfriend in a park in New York City and honestly, it kind of spilled out while we were